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Insights With PT

Insights With PT

insightswithpt 100 Episodes Sep 25, 2026

Insights With PT is a podcast hosted by Pastor Tola, who shares life lessons and principles gathered from personal experience. The show offers guidance on living a fulfilled life, covering topics such as happiness, financial wellness, marriage, leadership, and career development. Each episode aims to provide practical insights for personal growth and advancement.

Episodes

Putting God at the Center: How Husbands Can Lead and Elevate Their Wives
Putting God at the Center: How Husbands Can Lead and Elevate Their Wives Sep 25, 2026 710 Temi and Pastor T explore how placing God at the center strengthens marriage, focusing on a husband’s role to spiritually lead, challenge, and gently uplift his wife. The episode covers communication, emotional engagement, practical steps like shared fasting and scripture conversations, and encourages patience, gentleness, and growth through faith.
When Best Friends Cross the Line: Emotional Affairs, Boundaries & Trust
When Best Friends Cross the Line: Emotional Affairs, Boundaries & Trust Sep 18, 2026 968 Hosts Temi and PT dive into real marriage challenges through a faith-based lens. They discuss opposite-sex friendships and emotional affairs, how to rebuild trust after betrayal, and how same-sex friendships and single friends can affect a marriage. The episode also tackles practical conflicts, like choosing to work or stay home after children—while urging couples to keep God at the center and use
When Grief Touches Marriage: Reconnecting After Loss
When Grief Touches Marriage: Reconnecting After Loss Sep 11, 2026 914 Welcome back to Insights with P.T. Temi and P.T. tackle tough marriage issues: dealing with pregnancy loss and postpartum depression, differing desires about having more children after a traumatic birth, how to support each other through grief, whether to involve parents in marital problems, and balancing family traditions with creating your own. P.T. emphasizes counseling, church/fellowship supp
Unity vs Uniformity: Protecting Your Marriage from Resentment and In‑Laws
Unity vs Uniformity: Protecting Your Marriage from Resentment and In‑Laws Sep 4, 2026 1094 This episode unpacks Matthew 19:3–10, exploring Jesus’ teaching on divorce, the exception of sexual immorality, and how hardness of heart leads to resentment and spiritual immaturity. The speaker urges listeners to seek God’s guidance directly and emphasizes God’s provision for forgiveness. Practical guidance is given on cleaving to your spouse, handling in‑laws, financial unity versus uniformity,
Wisdom That Brings Peace: Healing Your Marriage with Gentle Answers
Wisdom That Brings Peace: Healing Your Marriage with Gentle Answers Aug 28, 2026 1000 This episode teaches biblical principles for healthy marriages: seeking wisdom from above, answering gently to defuse anger, and tending to your spouse with care and attention. It warns against persistent anger, secrecy, and infidelity, and encourages honesty, apology for mistakes, and honoring your partner so relationships can grow and find peace.
Submission: Power Under Control — A Biblical Guide to Marriage
Submission: Power Under Control — A Biblical Guide to Marriage Aug 21, 2026 939 This episode lays a scriptural foundation for Christian marriage, focusing on submission as responsible leadership, humility modeled by Christ, and the need for mutual honor. It emphasizes understanding your spouse, choosing your battles, seeking godly wisdom, and rejecting worldly approaches so marriages can endure and flourish.
From Control to Care: Reclaiming Marriage by Scripture
From Control to Care: Reclaiming Marriage by Scripture Aug 14, 2026 883 In this episode PT presents a scriptural foundation for Christian marriage, drawing on Ephesians and 1 Corinthians. He urges husbands to love their wives sacrificially as Christ loved the church and calls wives to submit unto the Lord. The message warns against using headship as control, emphasizes spiritual leadership and cleansing by the Word, and encourages couples to pursue unconditional, pati
Masculinity, Money and Intimacy: Communication Over Pride
Masculinity, Money and Intimacy: Communication Over Pride Aug 7, 2026 755 This episode offers down-to-earth advice for couples on managing money and preserving their relationship: agree on a budget, create a joint account for shared expenses funded proportionally, and let the partner who is best at money management handle payments while keeping transparency. It also covers emotional connection and intimacy—how daily attention matters, why sex and romance require communi
Stop Repeating Yourself: Communicate Without Controlling
Stop Repeating Yourself: Communicate Without Controlling Jul 31, 2026 783 This episode explores practical marriage guidance about repeated conversations—how to understand your partner's rhythm, ask for grace, and avoid trying to overrun or dominate them. Speakers discuss respecting differences, trusting intuition about children, and resolving parenting disagreements. It also covers balancing ministry and fatherhood, time management strategies, and honest talk about fina
Don't Be a Fool — How Couples Navigate Conflict and Forgiveness
Don't Be a Fool — How Couples Navigate Conflict and Forgiveness Jul 24, 2026 772 This episode explores how culture and word choice shape communication in marriage, showing how phrases like "don't be a fool" can be heard very differently depending on background. Guests discuss distinguishing surface arguments from deeper unresolved issues, practical steps to deescalate conflict (backing off, revisiting issues calmly), and deciding whether something is worth fighting over. Throu
Marry the One Who Fears God: Straight Talk on Choosing a Spouse
Marry the One Who Fears God: Straight Talk on Choosing a Spouse Jul 17, 2026 723 This episode offers blunt, practical advice on choosing a partner, emphasizing that the fear of God matters most as it shapes respect, fidelity, and character. It also covers conflict resolution and communication techniques for couples: knowing when to let go, avoiding public interference, using written notes to de-escalate, and understanding how men and women communicate differently.
Friendship Over Romance: The Real Glue in Marriage
Friendship Over Romance: The Real Glue in Marriage Jul 10, 2026 854 This episode offers practical marriage advice, emphasizing friendship and commitment as the foundation that outlasts romantic feelings. The speaker stresses the importance of mutual respect, choosing your battles, and avoiding rigid "red lines" that can damage a relationship. Through personal anecdotes and simple rules—don't insist on always being right, prioritize partnership over pride, and focu

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