
#WithChude
#WithChude is a podcast that features films, series, documentaries, interviews, and blogs from Africa, focusing on strengthening the mind, heart, and spirit. It provides a safe space for African celebrities and leaders to discuss personal topics publicly for the first time. The show aims to foster community and support life-changing content.
Episodes

Kai Cenat Copied My Idea - Muhammed Gilmore
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"Are you and Rufai dating?" — Samuel Banks on #WithChude
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My Mother Did Something I Can Never Forget — Samuel Banks
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Omowunmi Dada on #WithChude | #TheJoy150 (Full Episode)
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2027 Election: Nobody Is Going To Say This.
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What I Learnt From Segun Johnson
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We stole a bicycle and the owner found us before midnight — Segun Johnson
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I went against my mother to meet my father. I was not ready for what happened next— Segun Johnson
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I asked my husband to stop hiring strippers, then my pastor called— Femi and Simi
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What I Learnt From Femi Dapson
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The doctor printed the scan and I started shaking - Sisi Yemmie
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I went back to find the lady who said my relationship would scatter — Simi Dapson
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I was meeting Presidents at work, then I left to do cleaning jobs in Lagos — Femi Dapson
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What I Learnt From Ehi Ogbebor
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What I Learnt From Sisi Yemmie
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Mc Oluomo is the only married man I’ve dated and this is my reason - Ehi Ogbebor
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I might not even be alive before the next election, here's why - Peter Obi
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I’d Rather Be the Bad Guy Than Destroy the Mother of My Kid - Abounce
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My father was shot 9 times and I don't know if I have healed from that - Vusi Thembekwayo
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South Africa SWAT tear-gassed us after we begged for protection - Nigerian Victims
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Blood Sisters: Kate Henshaw, Blessings Nze & Michelle Dede Spill What Really Went Down On Set
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'Nigerian Men Don't Cook'- Or Is It Just A Story We Tell ?
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I got married to the first man i ever took seriously -PRISCILLA OJO MKAMBALA.
My guest today is Priscilla Ojo-Mkambala,a media personality and entrepreneur. She reflects on growing up with a si

Fear, Grief & Becoming — An honest conversation with KingDavid |#WithChude
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"I went through my husband’s phone and tried to end it all that night in a ditch." - Dedun Oluwo |#WithChude
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“I don’t care if I never act with Funke again, I just want a relationship with her”- Juliana Olayode |#WithChude
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I didn’t know 1 in 3 women have miscarriages until it happened to me – Wanjiru Njiru |#WithChude
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They said my wife left me because I was broke but here’s the truth - Dayo D1 Adeneye
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I was attacked on my way to go see my kids but I still went on to see them - Temilola Adepetun |#WithChude
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My ex-husband used to give me gist about some women on RHOL - Dabota Lawson
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I was going to die a poor person if I remained in Ghana so I moved - Riyah
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I did not believe post natal depression could happen to me until it did - Dakore and others
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Inside Benin City’s Streets: Drugs, Hunger & Survival
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MI Abaga with Chude talk in-depth about how depression saved my life
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People thought my husband stopped me from doing media but this is the real reason - EyiyemiOlivia |#WithChude
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They said i was beating my wife Bambam but this is what really happened - Teddy A |#WithChude
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He threatened to post my n*de and I gave him a go ahead because I wasn’t going to pay - Lizzy Jay |#WithChude
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They came with guns looking for Funke Akindele but I was hiding her - Bimbo Thomas
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"Davido supported me even before I became popular." - Layi Wasabi
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"Losing my mom was the last straw that made me move away from religion." - Niyi Akinmolayan
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Artists go as far as being diabolical for visibility then there’s me - Eben
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I have not performed any burial in two weeks because of Trump’s tweet - Rev. Dachomo
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Nigeria is a country of particular concern - Site of mass burial in Plateau
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Is there a Genocide in Nigeria? Hear from people living in Northern Nigeria
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My parents marriage programmed me to resent men - Nigerians speak on domestic violence
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I voted for President Tinubu because Nigerians offended me - Bimbo Akintola |#WithChude
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"They ganged up and accused me of misappropriating funds at CityFm, so I resigned." - Doja Allen |#WithChude
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“I don’t care about being liked, all my life I’ve been bullied by people.” - King David |#WithChude
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“I was supposed to get married last year, but her family found out and collapsed everything.” - Boma |#WithChude
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"I was broke and living in my parents house even though I was popular." - True crime Daniel |#WithChude
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Nigeria has a culture of “men can get away with most things” and I was a partaker of that - MI Abaga |#WithChude
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"I didn’t want to become a millionare, I just wanted to eat." – Nasboi
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"My dad married 3 wives, and living with my step mom was hard." - Broda Shaggi
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"I tried to end my life after a failed investment that led to bankruptcy." - Owen Gee |#WithChude
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I prayed for 5 years to get pregnant then had one miscarriage when I did - Kambua Manundu |#WithChude
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I was addicted to smoking so bad that ... – Yemi Alade opens up |#WithChude
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I got married because I needed stability, and I married my classmate – Jesse Jagz
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Your kidney or your life | A true crime special
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I had a great job but was still chasing others, and it was depressing - Founder of Selar, Douglas
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Taking care of family after losing my dad slowed me down in life, and I have regrets — Kelechi Udegbe
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I grew up in Ajegunle even though people think I’m a rich kid - Fisayo Fosudo |#WithChude
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“I was always looking for validation from men because I hated my dad so I had to” - Seyi Shay
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I had just given birth, my bones were broken and I left him - Diadem and others on domestic violence
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“I haven’t seen my children in 10 years because I refused to pay” - Daddy freeze
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"My parents were in same hospital, mom passed upstairs and then dad 4 days to my birthday." - Willam
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“I grew up fat, short and ugly and that made me hate myself even though I was loved at home” - Tobeszn
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I couldn’t live by myself - Osi Suave talks about dealing with depression
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“God is not the reason for my financial success” - crypto millionaire Danny Walter
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"My dad said I was going to waste my life and kicked me out because I wanted to be an actor." - Jim Iyke
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“My dad abandoned me, mom raised me alone, and I turned to drugs” – Bucci Franklin
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"I was fired from TVC and president Tinubu brought me back" - Morayo Afolabi-Brown
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My mom was sick, I was broke, I tried to end it with shaving powder, she said she’d join –Shan George
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"My parents didn't support my career so when my mom died I had to seize the opportunity" - MC Remote
The skit-maker and stand-up comedian, MC Remote, is my guest today.He tells me how growing up, his parents did not support his dreams. When he wanted to try comedy, they said no. When he tried drawing, they said no. Even when he turned to boxing, they said no again. Every talent he introduced to his family, they dismissed. But he kept fighting, he kept going.He says he was not great in school eith

Reverend King: Nigeria’s deadliest cult leader | A true crime special
There are stories you wish were fiction.Stories you hope were only rumours. But this one is real. The story of Reverend Emeka Ezeugo, known by his followers as Reverend King.In 2006, his case shook Nigeria. But over time, silence has covered it. His church still stands, his followers still defend him, and his name is barely spoken.Yet what happened cannot be forgotten. Women made to serve him nake

I was owed salary for 10 months and expected younger presenters to do so but I apologize now - VJ Adams
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My friends didn’t help me when I needed support early in my career but they are still my guys - Chike
The Boo of the Booless is my guest today, and this is Chike like you have never heard him before.He tells me how he did not even know music would be his thing until after university. How he would just sing and disturb everybody around him. How the road here was tough. How he had to act for two years just to generate income.He talks about people calling him arrogant. Says he hears it a lot. About a

“I thought of slumping on the pitch and dying or quitting football at 17” – Rasheedat Ajibade
From living in a room with 10 people in Mushin Idi- Araba to lifting trophies on the international stage and becoming a National VIP, Rasheedat Ajibade’s journey will break your heart and inspire you all at once.She tells me about growing up in a compound with over a hundred people.About washing toilets and bathrooms for money.About selling kunu and zobo just to get by.She played for FC Robo in Ni

“People think polyamory is a sex pool, but it’s not” — Hermes & others on what it means
Not everyone cheats. Some just choose to love more than one, openly, honestly, and without shame.Hermes lives in a polyamorous relationship with two women in different parts of the world. One of them, Blessing, has been with him for three years and chooses not to date anyone else. The other is in Germany. All three are aware of each other. They’ve had conversations together, not just about love bu

My mom left one night and didn’t come back until seven years later because things got hard - Hermes
His mother woke up one morning and abandoned him, his father and siblings without areason, he watched his father being slapped by touts right in front of him in the uncompleted building where they lived, as the man tried to navigate debilitating poverty with dignity and grace, and he survived multiple moments when his life could have been destroyed.Yet, Hermes Iyele is that rare human being who ha

My uncle raped me and I couldn’t tell my mom - Toyin Lawani, Elvina Ibru and others on sexual abuse
These are not just stories.They are testaments. From people who have lived through it. And survived.One lost her innocence to someone in the same house.One tried to run but was pulled back by her braids.One got pregnant and was taken to Ibadan for an abortion at five months.One was told to stay quiet because “things like this happen.”One was asked by a nurse what she was wearing.One lost childhood











