Queen Raffy's Space
Queen Raffy's Space is a lively variety podcast hosted by Rafiat Akinwande, where each episode blends motivation, books, fun facts, travel tips, poems, interviews, and random thoughts. The show is designed to make listeners learn, laugh, and grow, with over five distinct segments to keep things fresh and entertaining. Listeners are invited to share feedback via email or connect with the podcast on Instagram.
Episodes
Book Discussions - No Perfect Love By Adesuwa O'Man Nwokedi
No Perfect Love by Adesuwa O'Man Nwokedi is the book that finally introduced me to Adesuwa's writing, and I completely understand the hype now. My friend, Detee, insisted I read it and even got me a copy. From the very first chapter, I was hooked. Adesuwa dey write abeg.The story explores love, marriage, family, old flames, adultery, obsession, and healing. I found myself really frustrated
Bants with Fausat Omolara Ayinla (Arilewola): Author, Storyteller and Creator of the Storytelling Advantage Framework
For the 50th episode of Queen Raffy's Space, I sat down with Fausat Omolara Ayinla, Nigerian author, storyteller, publisher, and creator of the Storytelling Advantage Framework, to talk about the power of stories and the journey behind writing them.We explore how she discovered her love for writing, why children's literature and historical fiction have become her signature genres, and how she deve
Random Musings episode 154 - A mismatch of thoughts
For this episode of Random Musings, I'm sharing a few thoughts that have been sitting in my head for a while before I took a break from recording. From the irony of scholarship applications asking for affidavits of poverty, to realizing that some people put others down to make themselves feel better, and accepting that you can't control people's perceptions or assumptions about you.I a
Book Discussions - Wahala By Nikki May
Wahala by Niki May is a book i went into Wahala by Niki May with no expectations. I was simply drawn to the cover and the title. After reading it, I can confidently say... na truly wahala!The story is packed with friendship, betrayal, adultery, revenge, power plays, and plenty of drama. One thing that stood out to me was how much of the chaos could have been avoided if people had simply been hones
Bants With DrewBaba ( Founder, Drew Marketing Innovations)
For the 49th episode of Bants With, I spoke with Andrew Ovo Ekpiwhre aka DrewBaba, founder of Drew Marketing Innovations (DMI), a talent management and marketing agency specialising in deal negotiation, brand development, and campaign strategy.We explore the business side of content creation, what it takes to build successful brand partnerships, and why talent management is much more than just con
Reflections - Take A Minute S8ep7 - Pausing With The Qur'an
This year, Reflections – Take A Minute becomes more personal. I’m sharing Qur’anic verses that have carried me — especially in moments when life felt like a test I didn’t study for.In this reflection, I sit with the reality that being tested is part of the human journey. Fear. Loss. Uncertainty. Waiting. These seasons can make us feel forgotten, but this verse reminds me that tests are not abandon
Reflections - Take A Minute S8ep6 - Pausing With The Qur'an
This year, Reflections – Take A Minute becomes more personal. I’m sharing Qur’anic verses that have carried me — especially in moments when life felt like a test I didn’t study for.In this reflection, I sit with the reality that being tested is part of the human journey. Fear. Loss. Uncertainty. Waiting. These seasons can make us feel forgotten, but this verse reminds me that tests are not abandon
Reflections - Take A Minute S8ep5 - Pausing With THe Qur'an
This year, Reflections – Take A Minute becomes more personal. I’m sharing Qur’anic verses that have carried me — especially in seasons where I needed reassurance more than answers.In this reflection, I sit with the promise that difficulty is never the end of the story. When things feel heavy, when clarity feels far away, this verse reminds me that ease is not separate from hardship; it exists alon
Reflections - Take A Minute S8ep4 - Pausing With The Qur'an
This year, Reflections – Take A Minute becomes more personal. I’m sharing Qur’anic verses that have carried me — especially in moments when I needed to shift my perspective.In this reflection, I sit with gratitude. Not the loud kind that only shows up when everything is perfect, but the quiet, steady gratitude that exists even in waiting, even in uncertainty. This verse reminds me that gratitude i
Reflections - Take A Minute S8ep2 - Pausing With The Qur'an
This year, Reflections – Take A Minute becomes more personal. I’m sharing Qur’anic verses that have carried me — especially in moments when I needed mercy more than anything else.In this reflection, I sit with repentance. With returning. With the truth that no matter how far we feel, Allah’s mercy is always closer. There is no mistake too big, no season too messy, no distance too wide. We are invi
Reflections - Take A Minute S8ep3 - Pausing with The Qur'an
This year, Reflections – Take A Minute becomes more personal. I’m sharing Qur’anic verses that have carried me — especially in seasons where I had to confront worry, uncertainty, and the fear of not having enough.In this reflection, I sit with Allah as Ar-Razzaq — The Provider. Provision is not only wealth. It is timing. It is peace. It is protection. It is doors opening in ways we did not plan. W
Reflections - Take A Minute - Pausing with the Qur'an
This year, Reflections – Take A Minute becomes more personal. I’ll be sharing Qur’anic verses that have carried me, strengthened me, and reminded me of Allah in moments when I needed it most.In this first reflection, I sit with the comfort and accountability of knowing that Allah sees us — in our effort, in our quiet struggles, and even in the parts of our lives no one else witnesses. A gentle rem
Random Musings episode 153 - What Do You Stand For
On this episode of Random Musings, I reflect on the importance of standing for something, having values, knowing what you believe in, and being rooted in them. I talk about taking the year to intentionally discover the values you hold dear, the ones you are not easily moved from, and how those values quietly shape your choices, boundaries, and sense of self.This is a gentle invitation to pause, re
Bants With Bridget Ibuchim-Owabie (Founder of Biobranding Academy)
For the 48th episode of Bants With, I spoke with Bridget Ibuchim-Owabie, founder of Biobranding Academy, to talk about women, visibility, and career growth. We explore why so many talented women remain unnoticed, why participating online can seem challenging, and what personal branding truly should be without the pressure.Bridget shares practical insights on building professional authority, positi
Thank You for A Mermorable 2025, Let's Make More Moments in 2026...
2025 was a year of highs and bumps, of romanticising life and learning from the stumbles, but one thing is certain: it was unforgettable. I discovered a little more about myself and started staying grounded in my ways and the work I love.For the podcast, we published 51 episodes, crossed 100k listens, and through it all, YOU were here, standing by and supporting every step. I am deeply grateful.Ma
Random Musings episode 152 - Not My Shame
There’s been a lot of conversation online about insecurity in Nigeria, with some people framing it as a Christian genocide or a Muslims-versus-Christians issue. While there’s no denying that insecurity is completely out of control, I don’t think it’s honest to reduce something this complex to a religious war.On this episode of random musings, I talk about why, as a Muslim, I refuse to carry shame
Random Musings episode 151 - Danish Deception Reaction
On this episode of random musings, I talk about the Danish deception story that was all over TikTok. I kept seeing people confidently say things like, “I could never be scammed” or “that would never happen to me,” and it got me thinking.The truth is, scams are not one-size-fits-all. Just because one type wouldn’t work on you doesn’t mean another one couldn’t. And most importantly, shaming victims
The Birthday Episode - 33 : Reclaiming Joy & Rewriting Me
Another round trip around the sun has been completed, and my favourite day of the year is finally here. #Year32 was a season of unlearning, shedding, breaking old patterns, and quietly rebuilding myself from the inside out. It pushed me to release identities that no longer fit and return to the One who has always carried me — the Creator who writes the script long before I step into the scene.#Yea
Random Musings episode 150 - The Good Sides to Aduliting
Adulting can feel overwhelming sometimes, but lately I’ve been reflecting on the little joys that come with it, too. In this episode of Random Musings, I share some of the upsides I’ve noticed, such as the communities we get to build, the autonomy to make our own choices, and the freedom to spend our money the way we want.What about you? Have you discovered any good sides to adulting? I’d love to
Random Musings episode 149 - Justice For Oversharers
In this episode of Random Musings, I discuss how harsh people can be towards oversharers and why that judgment often overlooks the bigger picture. If you’ve ever shared a little too much and then felt regret afterwards, this one is for you. I share practical tips to help oversharers protect themselves, set healthy boundaries, and express openly without carrying the weight of embarrassment later.
Random Musings episode 148 - A Negative Mindset
In this episode of random musings, I go on a bit of a rant about negativity because some people seem hooked on it. Everything they see, they twist into something bad. That is not a healthy way to live. I share why staying stuck in that mindset does more harm than good and why it is so important to flip the script, shift your perspective, and choose a better way to see life.
Monday Motivation episode 259
Appreciate your tribe...
Monday Motivation episode 258
Pick up that project now!!!...
Book Discussion - Not So Terrible People by Nana Sule
Not So Terrible People by Nana Sule is a book that blends everyday human struggles with the mystical. I loved how she crafted celestial creatures like the devil and jinns with such human-like features, making the stories feel both familiar and otherworldly at the same time. Do listen to my thoughts on it and why I think you should read it, too.Grab your copy here 👉🏾 https://masobebooks.com/ng/book
Monday Motivation episode 257
Life is for the living...
Monday Motivation episode 256
Nobody is an overnight success...
Random Musings episode 146 - The June That Juned...
June was a lot, and in true Random Musings fashion, I’m here to talk all about it.From starting a brand new role as a Customer Success Manager (oh yes, Raffy is a woman in tech now 👩🏾💻), to attending a podcast narrative storytelling workshop by Culture Custodian that filled me with new creative energy, June had me spinning, in the best way possible.But that’s not all.I also got the honour of host
Monday Motivation episode 255
Make ir exist...Before you make it perfect...
Random Musings episode 145 - My Love for the Art of Movies 🎬
For this episode, I talk about my lifelong fascination with the art of movies. From the Nollywood movies that sparked my interest to the new ones that I still love now. Even though the joy I once felt has shifted, my admiration for the intricate artistry behind every film remains strong. From the compelling performances of actors to the genius of editors, sound designers, and lighting experts, I
Monday Motivation episode 254 - Emotions
Don't let your emotions rule you. ..
Random Musings episode 144 - Being Nigerian : A Blessing & A Curse
For this episode of Random Musings, I reflect on three powerful qualities that define Nigerians—resilience, creativity, and the ability not to sweat the small stuff. These traits have helped us thrive in challenging environments, making us resourceful, adaptable, and forward-thinking. Yet, in certain moments, they can also be a double-edged sword.How does our resilience sometimes lead to unnecessa
Monday Motivation episode 253 - Now
Now is all you have...
Monday Motivation episode 252 - The Sun or The Moon?
Never doubt your place...
Nature & It's Beauty
In this short but heartfelt episode of random musings, I marvel at the breathtaking artistry of Almighty Allah, the greatest designer. From the graceful flight of birds to the serene glow of the moon, the twinkling stars, and the lush green grass beneath our feet, every detail of nature speaks to His perfection. You can also support me to get the podcast website back up and running here
Monday Motivation episode 251- Be Brave
Be brave..Reinvent the Wheel
Marriage In Your 20s : Regret or Reward?
For this episode of Random Musings, I dive into the hot topic of getting married in your 20s, sharing my personal experience of saying "I do" at 23. I talk about the importance of choosing a partner who truly understands you, knowing yourself before committing, and why the right foundation matters more than the timing. Tune in for my honest 2cents and hot take on early marriage!
Random Musings episode 141 - 100K Listens Later – How Podcasting Transformed Me
Start with what you have! In this special episode of Queen Raffy's Space, I take a moment to reflect on the incredible journey of growing my podcast to 100,000 listens. From the unexpected joys to the invaluable life lessons, I share the personal and professional growth that podcasting has gifted me. Whether you're a fellow podcaster or simply someone navigating your own creative path, thi
Monday Motivation episode 250
Don't dwell on the negative!
Random Musings episode 140 - Don't Minimize Yourself
In this episode of Random Musings, I discuss something deeply important: not minimising yourself. Too often, women are encouraged to shrink their ambitions, downplay their strengths, or stay silent to make others comfortable. But that’s not who we’re meant to be.I share my thoughts on my own personal failure regarding this topic and why you should show up in your life with full confidence and embr
Monday Motivation episode 247 - One Chance
We all just need that one chance...
PSA - 100k Listens &A Giveaway For You
🎉 100K LISTENS — We Did It! 🎉Wow, Rockstars, we officially hit 100,000 listens, and I couldn’t have done it without YOU!. Queen Raffy's Space podcast started as a passion project, and seeing how far we have grown to over listeners across 120+ countries is truly incredible.To celebrate, I’m giving back with a special giveaway! Listen in to the episode and make sure to be the first to grab that
Reflections -Take A Minute(Life Lessons From The Prophets) Ep27
For the twenty-seventh episode we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Musa(AS). Prophet Musa(AS) early life was characterized by trials and reliance on Almighty Allah. You can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Centra to know about his life story - https://open.spotify.com/episode/1CChNZSgh2immxApwoKgX5?si=tbWS9Wz5QB6aFtAsyzgJFQ
Reflections -Take A Minute(Life Lessons From The Prophets) Ep26
For the twenty-Sixth episode we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Musa(AS).
Prophet Musa(AS) early life was characterized by trials and reliance on Almighty Allah.
You can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Centra to know about his life story - https://open.spotify.com/episode/1CChNZSgh2immxApwoKgX5?si=tbWS9Wz5QB6aFtAsyzgJFQ
Reflections -Take A Minute(Life Lessons From The Prophets) Ep25
For the twenty-fifth episode we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Yusuf (AS). Prophet Yusuf (AS) was known for his unwavering patience, resilience, and exceptional beauty.You can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Central - https://open.spotify.com/episode/0QpwzTZ5ST2Rbyz9gR0C3T?si=URkNh6inT5aeLTQTLeQkZg
Reflections -Take A Minute(Life Lessons From The Prophets) Ep24
For the twenty-fourth episode we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Yaqub (AS). Prophet Yaqub descended from a line of devout Prophets of Allah and continued to carry the message of oneness through his progeny. He was the son of Prophet Ishaq, and his grandfather was Prophet Ibrahim (AS).You can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Central - https://open.spotify.com/episode/0QpwzTZ5ST2Rb
Reflections -Take A Minute(Life Lessons From The Prophets) Ep23
For the twenty-third episode we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Yaqub (AS). Prophet Yaqub descended from a line of devout Prophets of Allah and continued to carry the message of oneness through his progeny. He was the son of Prophet Ishaq, and his grandfather was Prophet Ibrahim (AS).You can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Central - https://open.spotify.com/episode/0QpwzTZ5ST2Rbyz
Reflections -Take A Minute(Life Lessons From The Prophets) Ep22
For the twenty-second episode we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Yaqub (AS). Prophet Yaqub descended from a line of devout Prophets of Allah and continued to carry the message of oneness through his progeny. He was the son of Prophet Ishaq, and his grandfather was Prophet Ibrahim (AS).You can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Central - https://open.spotify.com/episode/0QpwzTZ5ST2Rbyz
Reflections -Take A Minute(Life Lessons From The Prophets) Ep21
For the twenty-first episode we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Isa (AS). Prophet Isa (As) was a very knowledgeable man and the best human of his time. You can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Central - https://open.spotify.com/episode/7I0aZ6ZgYXZ8ce7uUO9WkU?si=nDxCEJywQ8KFYsKozpgZZw
Reflections -Take A Minute(Life Lessons From The Prophets) Ep20
For the twentieth episode we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Isa (AS). Prophet Isa (As) was a very knowledgeable man and the best human of his timeYou can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Central - https://open.spotify.com/episode/7I0aZ6ZgYXZ8ce7uUO9WkU?si=nDxCEJywQ8KFYsKozpgZZw
Reflections -Take A Minute(Life Lessons From The Prophets) Ep19
For the nineteenth episode, we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Nuh (AS). Prophet Nuh showed that he believed completely in the promise of Almighty Allah, and even though his human mind could not comprehend it, he followed through regardless. You can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Central - https://open.spotify.com/episode/3YyriHJs0vnYrDJ1wUFxdy?si=EWU5oHmzT0mZlJMiIpJjvA
Reflections -Take A Minute(Life Lessons From The Prophets) Ep18
For the eighteenth episode this season, we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Nuh (AS). Prophet Nuh showed that he believed completely in the promise of Almighty Allah, and even though his human mind could not comprehend it, he followed through regardless. You can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Central - https://open.spotify.com/episode/3YyriHJs0vnYrDJ1wUFxdy?si=EWU5oHmzT0mZlJMiIpJjv
Reflections -Take A Minute(Life Lessons From The Prophets) Ep17
For the seventeenth episode this season we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Sulaiman (AS), the story of his life is filled with lessons of his wisdom, leadership, and deep devotion to Allah. To learn more about the life of Sulaiman (AS), you can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Central - https://open.spotify.com/episode/2JgKFldKMtR2IpT8nk0qTd?si=Ctbqv5QDR0aLaajBAViTIw
Reflections - Take A Minute(Life Lessons From The Prophets) Ep16
For the first episode this season we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Sulaiman (AS), the story of his life is filled with lessons of his wisdom, leadership, and deep devotion to Allah. To learn more about the life of Sulaiman (AS), you can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Central - https://open.spotify.com/episode/2JgKFldKMtR2IpT8nk0qTd?si=Ctbqv5QDR0aLaajBAViTIw
Bants With UmmulKhayr Abdulhammed (Founder &Creative Designer of Heeva Fabrics)
For the 47th episode of Bants With, I spoke with UmmulKhayr Abdulhammed, a real fashion-lover with over a decade of experience in the fashion industry as a designer, illustrator, sewist, and surface pattern designer. She is the founder and creative designer of Heeva Fabrics; a Lagos-based fabric brand that helps fashion enthusiasts, creatives and fashion brands use fabric to express themselv
Random Musings episode 138 - Adulting stuns you into silence
nthis episode of random musings, I talk about how being an adult makes you quieter and helps you sieve out what is important and what isn't. Please share your own quiet moments with me via Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/queenraffyspacepodcast/
Random Musings episode 139 - Bastard Money
For this episode, I decided to daydream about all the things I would do if I ever made a lot of money. From hiring a chef to traveling anywhere I wanted, you would get a laugh out of it. Have you ever wondered or daydreamed in that manner? Share it in the comments if you are listening to it via Spotify.
Monday Motivation episode 246
Dont Fan The Funk...
Monday Motivation episode 245
What are you willing to sacrifice...
Random Musings episode 137 - It is not your shame
The society heaps a lot of shame on women and in this rant, I talk about how women should not internalise any of that shame and live their life for themselves. Do listen in...
Monday Motivation episode 244
The 5minutes Rule...
Monday Motivation episode 243
Don't Let The Trolls Run You Out Of Town...
Random Musings episode 136 - Romanticising Your Life
On this episode of Random Musings, I talk about the benefits of romanticising your life and why it is an important route that we should all be leaning towards this year. Do listen in and i hope you can get started on the journey of adding romance to your life.
Monday Motivation episode 242
The Sun Will Shine Tomorrow...
Random Musings episode 135 - Lessons from 2024
I have been going through some growing pains in the past two years and some of the lessons from it are just becoming clearer gradually and I shared some of the lessons in this episode. Please Listen to it and let me know if you have any valuable lessons that you learned from 2024 , please share them with me in the comments too...
Monday Motivation episode 241
Whenever you wake up, it is your morning...
PSA - Rockstar Hall Of Fame 2024
Inspired by the host of the podcast #WithChude and his #Joy150 List, I decided to share a list of people who have inspired me and fascinated me by their awesomeness in loving their lives or pursuing their daily hustle. If you have anyone in your life who has inspired you in like manner please do share with me via Instagram or Twitter.
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Thank you for 2024, Let's Go Full Speed Ahead In 2025...
2024 was filled with very bumpy roads that came with good moments, sad moments, and ugly moments. All of these have left me with a new version of myself that I am now trying to get reacquainted with in ways that I hope bring me new adventures and important lessons that help me thrive full speed ahead in 2025. I truly appreciate the fact that "YOU" were with me on these rides and helped the podcast
Monday Motivation episode 240
Do not be afraid to look stupid...
Book Discussion - Broken:Not A Halal Love Story
Broken:Not A Halal Love Story is a book by Fatima Bala that revolves around the love, romance, and lives of two northern Nigerian Muslim characters. It takes the reader on a whirlwind of emotions. Do listen to my thoughts on it and why I think you should read it, too.
Monday Motivation episode 239
Moments of clarity...
Random Musings episode 134 - Online Bullies
On this episode of random musings, I rant about online bullying of popular content creators and how it feels like these online bullies just project thier envy and jealousy on these people due to how popular and successful they percieve them to..Do Listen in...
Monday Motivation Episode 238
Put the stick down...
Book Discussions - To Love & To Hold by Olubukola Adekusibe
To Love & To Hold is a fictional love story that features themes like campus life, tribalism, love and so much more. The writting was easy to read and makes you feel like you are watching a movie. Do listen in to enjoy my review of it
Bants With Korede Azeez (Award Winning Filmmaker)
On this episode of Bants With, I spoke to award-winning filmmaker Korede Azeez. We talk about her filmmaking journey and her latest movie. This episode is a mini masterclass in filmmaking that you will enjoy listening to. You can check out her movies via the links below.
With Difficulty Comes Ease
https://www.primevideo.com/detail/0IJ0TT9RRPA8TUE34YROUED03U/ref=atv_dp_share_cu_r
Halima's Choice
Monday Motivation episode 237
Sell yourself...
Monday Motivation episode 236
Find your bare minimum...
Random Musings episode 133 - How do you dream?
How do you dream? for some people, it is easy to dream big dreams and aspire to be so much more even if they have no example or people to look up to. But for many of us, we need to see that our dreams have potential and that they can be done or achieved and so, on this episode, I talk about äspirational leadership or something like that using Kamala Harris and a few other world leaders as an examp
Monday Motivation episode 235
Shine your light for others who are waiting...
Monday Motivation episode 234
Don't defeat yourself...
Random Musings episode 132 - The Begging Culture
On this episode, I talk about how the begging culture in Nigeria especially as it pertains to young school children makes me feel. Have you been able to see what I spoke about in this episode? What do you think about it? Could you drop me a comment if you are listening via Spotify?
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