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Court of Love

Precious Olalere 28 Episodes Sep 24, 2026

Court of Love is a faith-based podcast for Christians who love God but struggle with overthinking, relationship anxiety, and emotional uncertainty in dating and relationships. It provides a safe and honest space for conversations about relationship anxiety, ROCD (relationship OCD), Christian dating, emotional and mental health, family dynamics, and personal growth. The show grounds these topics in biblical truth and practical wisdom. Listeners can stay in touch with the host through Instagram at @_love_withoutfear.

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Relationship Anxiety Vs God's Voice Part 1 Sep 24, 2026 00:32:45 When you’re a Christian with relationship anxiety, it can be hard to tell the difference between fear and discernment. In this episode, we talk about the patterns that may point to relationship anxiety. If you’ve ever wondered, “Is this anxiety, or is God trying to tell me something?” this episode will help you slow down, recognize your patterns, and approach your relationship with more clarity.St

Why do I Keep Comparing my relationship? Sep 3, 2026 00:28:02 In this episode, we talk about why relationship anxiety can make you constantly analyze your partner, compare him to an ideal, and treat ordinary doubts or imperfections like signs that something is wrong. We also explore the difference between evaluation and repeatedly testing your relationship for certainty. If you’ve been wondering whether he is “enough,” whether you’re settling, or whether you

How do I Know if he is “the ONE” / Relationship Anxiety Aug 27, 2026 00:48:50 What if he’s a good man, but you still don’t feel sure about the relationship? In this episode, we talk about relationship anxiety, overthinking attraction, fear of choosing the wrong partner, and the pressure Christian women can feel to know whether someone is “God’s will.” If you keep questioning a healthy relationship, checking your feelings, or wondering if doubt means you should leave, this e

4 Reasons Why You’re Anxious Even When Your Relationship Is Going Well Feb 25, 2026 00:13:16 4 Reasons Why You’re Anxious Even When Your Relationship Is Going WellHave you ever been in a healthy, loving relationship with no red flags, there is good communication, consistency and yet you still feel anxious, uneasy, or unsettled? In this episode, we unpack four powerful reasons why anxiety can show up even when your relationship is actually going well.This conversation is especially for any

5 Things Christian Women Need to Stop Overthinking in the Talking Stage Feb 18, 2026 00:18:44 5 Things Christian Women Need to Stop Overthinking in the Talking Stage. Stop overthinking the talking stageAre you in the talking stage and constantly questioning everything?Wondering if your anxiety is intuition… or just anxiety being loud?In this episode, we’re talking directly to the Christian woman who is exhausted from overthinking the talking stage. The one who prays, journals, seeks God—bu

When Healthy Love Triggers Anxiety: Unlearning the Myth of “The One” Feb 11, 2026 00:13:02 What happens when a relationship is healthy… but your anxiety gets louder instead of quieter?In this episode, When Healthy Love Triggers Anxiety: Unlearning the Myth of “The One”, we talk about why peace doesn’t always come when love is safe and why that can be deeply confusing, especially for people who struggle with relationship anxiety and Relationship OCD (ROCD).We explore how the pressure to

You are NOT in the wrong relationship; You just have RELATIONSHIP ANXIETY Feb 4, 2026 00:15:41 You are NOT in the wrong relationship; You just have RELATIONSHIP ANXIETY In this episode, we talk honestly about relationship anxiety and Relationship OCD (ROCD) especially how it shows up in Christian dating and relationships. If you’ve ever felt anxious in a relationship that looks “good on paper,” questioned whether you’re in the right relationship, or worried that your doubts mean something i

It’s Not You, It’s Growth! 5 Honest Truth About Adult Friendships Nov 7, 2025 00:27:55 Growing up, I thought friendship meant forever, but adulthood taught me that growth sometimes means growing apart. In this episode, I’m opening up about my real experiences with adult friendships: the people I’ve lost, the ones who stayed, and the lessons I’ve learned along the way. This isn’t about blame it’s about understanding that change is part of life and that outgrowing people doesn’t make

Dating a Spiritually Immature Man: Smart or Self Sabotage? Oct 17, 2025 00:11:22 Can a relationship truly thrive when one person is more spiritually mature than the other? In this episode of Court of Love, we dive into a tough but necessary conversation: what happens when a woman with a strong walk with God dates or marries a man who’s still growing in his faith.We’ll talk about how to discern spiritual maturity, the dangers of “missionary dating,” and whether love and potenti

20 Revealing Questions you NEED to Ask on a First Date Sep 19, 2025 00:25:12 First dates can be exciting… but also a little nerve-wracking, right? In this episode, we’re breaking down 20 revealing questions you NEED to ask on a first date. These aren’t just small talk questions; they’re conversation starters that help you see if someone’s faith, values, and life goals align with yours.Think of this as your Christian guide to dating with intention. From fun icebreakers tha

Why Do Guys Suddenly Disappear After Everything Seems Great? Jul 4, 2025 00:10:18 Everything was going well… and then he disappeared. No warning. No explanation. Just silence. If you've ever found yourself wondering what happened after it seemed like things were finally moving forward, you're not alone.In this episode, we dive deep into:Why some men suddenly pull away after showing strong interestThe emotional rollercoaster of ghosting and sudden distanceWhat his disapp

How to emotionally DETACH from someone + be emotionally free Mar 21, 2025 00:26:16 Are you feeling weighed down by emotional ties that no longer serve you? In this episode, "How to emotionally DETACH from someone + be emotionally free", we’ll explore how to practice detachment in relationships and embrace an unbothered life. Discover the power of detaching with love and learn to free yourself from emotional burdens.Join us as we share practical strategies for emotional

The Secret to Healthy Christian Dating Revealed: The Oxytocin Effect Mar 14, 2025 00:21:28 Are you navigating the world of Christian dating and seeking a deeper understanding of how to build meaningful relationships? In this enlightening video, "The Secret to Healthy Christian Dating Revealed: The Oxytocin Effect" we uncover the powerful role of oxytocin in fostering healthy connections and emotional bonds in dating.Join us as we explore the science behind oxytocin, often refe

How to stop NEGATIVE THOUGHTS and finally have CONTROL Mar 7, 2025 00:24:58 Are intrusive thoughts holding you back from living your best life? In this video, we dive deep into effective strategies for renewing your mind and taking charge of your mental well-being. In this episode, " How to stop NEGATIVE THOUGHTS and finally have CONTROL" we explore practical techniques to combat negativity and foster personal development.Discover how to identify and challenge t

Navigating Friendship Hurt: The Realities of Adult Friendships Feb 28, 2025 00:42:33 Have you ever experienced the pain of bad friends, friend break-ups or struggled to maintain friendships as an adult? You're not alone!In this episode, " Navigating Friendship Hurt The Realities of Adult Friendships". We discussed essential friendship insights that can help you navigate the complexities of your relationships. Discover why choosing the right friend is important for yo

Fake Friends EXPOSED 10 Shocking Clues to Spot Them in 2025 Dec 20, 2024 00:23:39 Are you tired of feeling surrounded by fake friends? In this eye-opening video, "Fake Friends EXPOSED: 10 Shocking Clues to Spot Them in 2025," we’ll reveal the telltale signs that someone in your life may not have your best interests at heart. Friendship should be built on trust, support, and genuine connection, but sometimes it can be hard to see through the facade. Join us as we uncover the r

3 Surprising Reasons He's Not Ready to Commit Dec 13, 2024 00:10:45 Are you wondering why he seems hesitant to take the next step in your relationship? In today’s episode, we uncover "3 Surprising Reasons He's Not Ready to Commit." If you're navigating the world of Christian dating, understanding these reasons can help you gain clarity and insight into your relationship dynamics. Fill out this form (https://relationship-talk-with-marissa.my.canva.site/precious-o

5 Rules GOD wants You to follow During the talking stage of dating | Christian Dating Dec 7, 2024 00:09:42 5 Rules GOD Wants You to Follow During the Talking Stage of Dating." If you're navigating the world of Christian dating, understanding these principles can help you build a strong foundation for a meaningful relationship. The talking stage can be exciting yet challenging, and it’s crucial to align your intentions with your faith. Join us as we explore how to honour God in your interactions, comm

5 Signs GOD Wants You to CUT A MAN Off During the Talking Stage of Dating |Christian Dating Nov 30, 2024 00:12:45 Are you navigating the talking stage of dating and feeling uncertain about a guy in your life? In this episode, we explore "5 Signs God Wants You to CUT A MAN Off During the Talking Stage of Dating." Understanding when to walk away is crucial in Christian dating, especially when it comes to maintaining your emotional and spiritual well-being. We’ll discuss key signs that may indicate it’s time t

5 Signs You're Ready for Christian Dating Nov 23, 2024 00:07:46 Are you wondering if you're truly ready for Christian dating? In this episode, we’ll discuss "5 Signs You're Ready for Christian Dating" and help you assess your emotional readiness for a meaningful relationship. Being emotionally available is key to building a healthy partnership, and understanding your own spiritual growth can significantly impact your dating journey. We’ll explore the essenti

5 Key Clues to Identify Spiritual Abuse and Covert Narcissism Nov 16, 2024 00:12:05 In this episode, we delve into the complex world of spiritual abuse and covert narcissism. If you've ever wondered how to identify spiritual abuse or what the signs of spiritual abuse are, you're in the right place. We’ll explore the key clues that can help you recognize a covert narcissist and the impact of their behaviour on your spiritual growth. Join us as we discuss how to set healthy bound

Ask Your Partner These 22 Questions to Know Them More Deeply Nov 9, 2024 00:26:13 Ask Your Partner These 22 Questions to Know Them More Deeply. If you find it challenging to start conversations. This episode is perfect for you. Hit play if you are asking any of the following questions or searching for: questions to ask in the early stage of dating questions to ask before dating question to ask before marriage question to ask when dating questions to ask when courting What que

How to CHOOSE a PARTNER WISELY Nov 1, 2024 00:15:25 As Christians, we have been given very little guidance on choosing our partners, primarily when two or three brothers compete to get our attention. The notation that when you see him, you will know has been the message preached everywhere we turn, but how do you accurately discern how to choose a partner wisely when faced with several options. In this episode, we discuss a question from a distre

6 Harsh Truths About RELATIONSHIPS That People Learn TOO LATE Oct 25, 2024 00:07:09 Don't ignore these 6 Harsh Truths About Relationships That People Learn too late. Understanding these realities can save you from a lot of disappointment, confusion, headache and heartbreak. If you're tired of experiencing the same relationship issues, you need to hear this.

God Wants You to Stop Wasting Your Time on the Wrong Guy Oct 18, 2024 00:08:26 Have you been asking yourself, “Is he really serious about me, or am I just waiting around?” I know how confusing it can feel. In today’s episode, I’m breaking down the clear signs that can help you figure out if he’s being intentional or if he’s just wasting your time. It’s time to protect your heart and find the clarity you deserve. Proverbs 4:23: "Guard your heart above all else, for it deter

5 Clear Signs God is Protecting You From a Bad Relationship Oct 11, 2024 00:06:46 If you've ever wondered why things didn’t work out or felt like something was holding you back, it might be God's way of protecting you. In this episode, we'll explore five clear signs that God could be steering you away from heartbreak. This episode will help you trust His plan and find peace, knowing that sometimes rejection is His way of saving you for something better.

3 Clear Signs God is Gently Urging You to Let Go of Someone Holding You Back! Oct 4, 2024 00:09:58 Are you feeling stuck in a relationship or friendship that’s draining your energy or causing confusion? In this episode, I discuss three undeniable signs that God may be guiding you to release someone who is no longer part of His plan for your life. Holding on could be holding you back from the peace, growth, and purpose that God intends for you. Don’t ignore these powerful signs—watch now to see

Welcome to the Court of Love Podcast Oct 1, 2024 00:01:19 Hello, and welcome to the Court of Love! If you've been searching for a place where authentic and deep conversations happen through a Christian lens, you've found it. This is the podcast where we have edifying and inspiring discussions. FOLLOW US ON SOCIAL Instagram Blog GET US AT Website

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