Diary of A Naija Girl
A safe place to learn, unlearn, evolve and laugh. The podcast explores the experiences of a Naija (Nigerian) girl navigating life, culture, and personal growth.
Episodes
Daniel Etim Effiong on Netflix success, faith, fatherhood & trolls | Dear Ife Series Podcast
Daniel Etim Effiong joined us on the podcast and it was truly an unforgettable conversation. Ife spoke with him about his journey as an actor, filmmaker, and director, including how he navigates criticism and responds to trolls in the public eye. He opened up about a deeply personal spiritual awakening, his father’s prison story, and what it was like growing up, shaping the man he is today. The co
Pastor Tolu Odukoya on Woman of God, Firstborn Pressure & Leadership | Dear Ife series Podcast
Pst. Toluwani Odukoya joined us on the podcast and it was truly an unforgettable conversation. Ife spoke with her about what it means to grow up as a firstborn daughter, navigate life as a pastor and woman of God, and carry the responsibility of leadership that often comes with being the first. There is so much depth, insight, and real-life wisdom in this episode, and you definitely don’t want to
DANG members on feminism, inter-religious marriage, online debates | Dear Ife Series Podcast
In this Dear Ife series podcast, Ife sits down with members of the DANG community for a thoughtful and opinion-filled conversation exploring some of today’s most debated social topics. Together they unpack perspectives on religion, personal identity, and the complexities that arise when people from different faiths choose to build a life together through inter-religious marriage.
The discussion a
Toolz on Nepo baby life, online drama & hidden desires in relationship | Dear Ife series Podcast
In this Dear Ife series Podcast Ife sits down with your favourite MC and talk show host Toolz for a thoughtful and opinion packed conversation on the podcast. Toolz addresses some of the assumptions people often make about her online and gives deeper context to her life and career. She opens up about being labelled a nepo baby and the realities and pressures that come with it while sharing how she
Diiadem on RHOL, toxic relationships & building a beauty empire | Dear Ife Series Podcast
Diiadem, beauty entrepreneur and media personality, sat down on the Dear Ife Series Podcast couch and shared candid insights about leveraging her appearance on The Real Housewives of Lagos to grow her business, navigating public perception, and building a powerful brand in the beauty industry. She opens up about the realities behind the spotlight, the intentional decisions she has made in protecti
JBums on marital leadership, life after loss & friendship breakups | Dear Ife Series Podcast
Bunmi George media personality, author and wellness advocate, sat down on the Dear Ife series podcast couch and shared candid insights about traveling alone, the power of female friendships, and stepping back from relationships that no longer serve you. She reflects on marriage, her husband’s supportive leadership, personal loss, grief, and healing, highlighting the role of friends, faith, and com
Nancy Umeh on Divorce, Building a Cookware Empire & Health Challenges | Dear Ife Series Podcast
Nancy Umeh, a renowned family influencer, sat down on the Dear Ife podcast couch and opened up like never before, speaking about her health challenges that led her to build a thriving cookware business, her relationship with her family, the death threats they received when her sister got divorced, and the painful realities of sexual abuse and incest in families where victims are often not fully su
Bovi on personal evolution, therapy & modern marriage challenges | Dear Ife Series Podcast
Bovi joined us on the Dear Ife podcast couch for one of our most honest and insightful conversations yet. He opened up about his professional journey, his deep level of self-awareness, and his experience with therapy: what it has meant for him and how it shapes the man he is today.
We also had a powerful discussion about the realities of external influences in marriage, how they can quietly affec
Biodun Stephen on cheating, stereotypes, Nollywood, & betrayal | Dear Ife Series Podcast
It is truly an honour to have Biodun Stephen, a celebrated producer, on this episode of the Dear Ife Series podcast. She opens up about her journey, what it really takes to be a producer, creating and breathing life into her stories, being criticized on social media for her ideals, navigating societal stereotypes, and experiencing betrayal in friendships. She has spoken and now it is over to you,
DANG Members on sex work, relationship, motherhood, abuse | Dear Ife Series Podcast
For this Dear Ife Series podcast we invited three DANG community members for an open conversation about everything and anything, and what made it exciting was how it moved beyond comments on DANG’s social media into a real roundtable discussion. We talked about early beginnings, the influence of social media and how actively we engage on it, interactions with people from different backgrounds, hon
Blessing Obasi NZE on rumours, family, fame and navigating hurt | Dear Ife Series Podcast
Another Friday, another scintillating conversation on the Dear Ife Series podcast. This time, we sit down with Nollywood favourite Blessing Obasi-Nze as she opens up about her journey,her early beginnings in the industry, navigating grief, and addressing the rumours surrounding her marriage. She also shares insights on collaborating professionally with her husband, and speaks candidly about the se
Grace Ofure’s Opinion on Value, Building Wealth & Sustaining Relationships | Dear Ife Series Podcast
Grace Ofure Ibhakhomu, a multidisciplinary professional and mentor to many around the world, shares powerful insights on building wealth as a woman and breaking free from small thinking—both in life and in relationships. This is one conversation you don’t want to miss. What’s your opinion on the question asked? Please share your thoughts in the comments, and don’t forget to like, share, and subscr
Seun Kuti On Feminism and Challenging Norms In Love And Society | Dear Ife Series Podcast
On this new season of the Dear Ife Podcast, we kick things off with Seun Kuti, an intellectual Afrobeat legend. In this episode, we dive deep into conversations around feminism, music, his unique upbringing, and trust dynamics in relationships. Some perspectives may resonate with you, while others might challenge you.
We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments, dear community. Don’t forget t
Dr Addy Olubamiji on Love, Loss and Leadership | FOUNDERS WITH AUDACITY Podcast
In this new Founders with Audacity podcast Ife sits down with Dr Addy Olubamiji, a world-class founder, NGO leader and STEM and global mobility advocate who helps people move abroad and improve their lives.
Together, they explore her powerful journey, drawing inspiration from her late sister and discuss the realities of cervical cancer, family life and the complexities of marriage.
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Shaffy Bello on romance, rivalry & choosing yourself | Dear Ife Series Podcast
It’s another unforgettable episode of Dear Ife series podcast and this time, we’re joined by none other than the iconic Shaffy Bello. From romance to career to family, Shaffy opens up like never before — sharing heartfelt reflections on sibling rivalry, the complexities of modern dating, and what every woman should know about holding her own. Her insight is raw, real, and refreshingly honest.
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Ify’s Kitchen on Infertility and Cooking Through the Struggles | Dear Ife Series Podcast
You know her as the Queen of culinary finesse and a social media star - but how well do you really know Ify of Ify’s Kitchen? In this heartfelt Dear Ife Series Podcast she opens up like never before —sharing her journey into the world of food, balancing a thriving culinary career with her legal profession, and her deeply personal struggles with infertility. Alongside Ife, she also dives into what
Aproko Doctor on Love in Limbo & Going Blind | Dear Ife Series Podcast
Our guest today is someone whose voice you’ve probably imagined whispering in your ear just as you’re about to make an unhealthy choice — and if your name is Nkechi or Emeka, you’ve likely felt personally called out. It’s none other than Aproko Doctor.
In Dear Ife Series Podcast he opens up like never before, sharing powerful behind-the-scenes stories, including a near-blindness experience that d
Ruth Kadiri on Risky Parenting Decisions, Privacy & Nollywood | Dear Ife Series Podcast
On this episode of Dear Ife Series Podcast beloved Nollywood actress and producer Ruth Kadiri opens up like never before. Known for keeping her personal life private, Ruth shares rare insights into her relationship and wedding, why she chose to keep it all low-key, and the impact of growing up without her father. She also discusses key moments in her career and dives into her honest views on sensi
Idia Aisen On Abusive Relationships, Pain & Nollywood | Dear Ife Series Podcast
Idia Aisien is every bit the woman she knows she is, and this powerful conversation with Ife on the Dear Ife Series Podcast proves just that. She opens up about surviving abusive relationships, growing up with the pressure of elite expectations, healing from a traumatic accident, and navigating the Nollywood industry. It’s raw, honest, and might just move you to tears. Grab a tissue, press play, a
Toyosi on Betrayal & Being an Actor's Wife | Dear Ife Series Podcast
Toyosi sat down with Ife on the Dear Ife Series Podcast and spilled everything. Think you know Toyosi? Think again. From her move back to Nigeria, to life as an actor’s wife, her career journey, and honest takes on heartbreak and infidelity — nothing was off-limits.
Ife asked all the questions you’ve been dying to know.
Now it’s your turn — share your thoughts in the comments.
And don’t forget to
Kunle Remi on Real-Life Marriage Struggles | Dear Ife Series Podcast
Kunle Remi joined the Dear Ife series, and nothing was off-limits. He spoke deeply about the real meaning of "for better, for worse" in marriage, his family's struggle with fibroids and the joy of finally having a baby, as well as relationship complications, trust, and friendship in marriage. Should your partner still be friends with their ex? Would you really stick to "for better, for worse"? Let
Tomike on marriage, betrayal & hard goodbyes | Dear Ife Series Podcast
Tomike joins Ife on this powerful episode of Dear Ife Series Podcast opening up like never before. She shares how she’s navigating marriage, building her career, dealing with the painful loss of her mum — and confronting the realities of infidelity in marriage, often triggered by broken promises and personal choices. Why do people really cheat? Share your thoughts in the comments. Let’s talk about
Falz On Rap, Rights & Family Hurt | Dear Ife Series Podcast
Welcome a new guest to the Dear Life Series Podcast! Falz the Bahd Guy sat on the Dear Ife couch — and he did not hold back. From setting the record straight about his music and style, to opening up about his law background, activism, relationships, and honest thoughts on Nigeria — Falz delivered it all. But what stood out most was his powerful take on family hurts, justice, and what it truly mean
Frank iTom on unspoken relationship rules & love story | Dear Ife Series Podcast
My guest this time is none other than Frank iTom — a brilliant brand and communications strategist, a content creator, and the master of viral transitions.
In this Dear Ife Series Podcast you dive deep into the Ife and Frank love story, explore the social pressures faced by the unmarried, and unpack some honest opinions around infidelity in relationships. It’s thought-provoking, emotional, and su
Adenike about Christian faith & true feminism | Dear Ife series Podcast
Adenike, a renowned Disability & Inclusion expert, joins Ife for a thought-provoking discussion on her journey exploring the Christian faith, diving into sensitive topics like church giving and modern feminism and women power. This conversation isn't complete without you - share your thoughts in the comments! We’re eager to hear from you. Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, SHARE, and SUBSCRIBE!
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Bisola Aiyeola speaks on Intentional Friendships | Dear Ife series Podcast
Bisola Aiyeola, award-winning actress, joined Ife to share her legendary insights on what it takes to be an amazing friend. She delved into what true friendship should feel like, drawing from relatable experiences. But this conversation isn’t complete without your input! Dear DANG Community, "over to you…"—drop your thoughts in the comments! Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE,LIKE & COMMENT!
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Pastor Femi Oladehin on Feminism, Marriage and Cohabitation | Dear Ife series Podcast
This time, Ife from the DANG Community sits down with Pastor Femi Oladehin to discuss the impact of feminism on men’s psychology and their approach to commitment in relationships. They also delve into the challenges of cohabiting while striving to maintain a relationship with God. Join the conversation and share your thoughts in the comments—let’s hear what you think! Don't forget to LIKE,COMMENT,
Opeyemi on Yoruba demon habits & Marriage for "papers" | Dear Ife series Podcast
On this captivating episode of Dear Ife series Podcast Opeyemi Famakin, Africa's leading food critic, takes a seat on Dear Ife’s couch to dive deep into how people navigate expectations in relationships - especially those built on convenience. But did we truly do justice to this complex topic? That’s where you come in! Share your honest thoughts in the comments - we can’t wait to hear from you! Do
Gbemi on what people do for love | Dear Ife series Podcast
Gbemi, a famous media personality and entrepreneur, is bringing the heat in this podcast episode of Dear Ife! So many of us have wondered just how far we should go for love and romantic relationships, and this conversation lays it all on the table. But wait - your thoughts matter too! After watching, don’t forget to share your take in the comments. And of course, remember to SUBSCRIBE, LIKE & SHAR
Mr Macaroni about his fear of relationships and cheating partners | Dear Ife series Podcast
In this exciting podcast of DEAR IFE, the beloved actor and comedian Mr Macaroni gets candid about his fear of committed relationships and shares insights into his life which the media has never heard before. Together with Ife, they dive deep into the complexities of infidelity in relationships and explore how such situations should be handled.
This vibrant and thought-provoking conversation i
Waje about Relationships, Male Friendship and Black Tax | Dear Ife Series Podcast
In this captivating Dear Ife Series Podcast renowned singer Waje sits down with Ife to share her honest and evolving perspective on men. She opens up about how her recent friendships with men have taught her valuable lessons, shifting her outlook on relationships and connection. Waje also dives into the pressures of "black tax" within African society, shedding light on the cultural expectations of
Diary of a Kitchen Lover on IVF, Relationship Pressures & Marriage | Dear Ife Series Podcast
Watch as Diary of a Kitchen Lover (Chef T) sits down with Ife from DANG Community to discuss everything from IVF struggles to the evolving dynamics in modern relationships and men’s marriage criteria. The conversation touches on difficult yet important topics affecting relationships today. We want to hear from you - drop your thoughts in the comments below, and we’ll be reading through your opinio
Omoni Oboli about Early Marriage, Mummy's Boys & African Fertility Trends | Dear Ife series Podcast
Join Omoni Oboli and Ife as they dive into a no-holds-barred conversation about early marriage, Nollywood stardom, and the real stories behind African family dynamics - from "Mummy’s boys" to adoption. This talk opens a can of worms on patriarchy in African families and how women deserve to be portrayed in these situations. Don’t miss this eye-opening conversation! Watch till the end, hit like, sh
Deyemi on marriage for money, ego and social media success | Dear Ife series Podcast
In this next episode of Dear Ife series Podcast, Ife dives deep with Deyemi as he breaks down marrying for money, the role of ego in relationships, his social media success and more! She reads THE NOTE from a community member, and since Deyemi has taken THE PLEDGE to share his opinions kindly, you won’t want to miss his thoughtful advice. Tune in to hear his insights, plus some extra details about
Veeiye about love, cheatings, marriage | Dear Ife series Podcast
In the latest Dear Ife podcast on the Diary of A Naija Girl channel, Veeiye joins for an open interview about love, cheatings, relationships, betrayal, dating and marriage. They dive into personal experiences with heartbreak, breakups, and divorce, offering self-help and relationship advice to inspire personal growth.
Chapters
00:00 Coming Up
00:39 Dear Ife Intro
02:00 The Pledge
02:29 Reading o
HOW TO RAISE UP $5 BILLION | Ifedayo Agoro & Moji Hunponu-Wusu| DANG Conversation | Dear Ife Podcast
Meet, Moji, the Founder and CEO of Woodhall Capital and Diary of a Naija Girl community member for three years. I sat with her to discuss everything, from how she’s raised up to $5 billion (with a “b”) for multiple organisations and how she hasn’t had time to cook in 20 years, to how the trend of compromising yourself to climb the career ladder simply isn’t sustainable… and everything in between.
